Recent content by KaijuPanda

Haha, yes! I came back now to update. Thank you everyone for the responses, it was so so helpful to see the various arrangements people have. And it was valuable feedback for me to keep tabs on my own boundaries. I'm definitely prone to acquiesce to keep a partner happy, and it definitely seems...

I was wondering the same about the OKC folks, otherwise it seems like a rather high bar - especially after reading the responses here. Being new to this, I wasn't sure if that level of openness was common with more experienced poly folks, but it appears that's not necessarily the case at all.

No it's a good point. I would want to be able to go to my house. And while I've never been one to have sex on a first (or second) date, I have certainly had first dates where we ended up spending hours with each other, sometimes ending up at one of our homes. Perhaps it's as simple as being a...

Hi all, I just joined this site today but I've been lurking and reading a lot of posts recently. Lots to process. My bf of 7 years and I have recently jumped into the non-monogamy waters, and I think so far it's going pretty well. I learned I was asexual several months ago, which is what...