Recent content by kanfyoozd15

I really appreciate this post. I can honestly say most of the positive poly posts come from the poly ppl saying 'I love my husband and I love my BF' and not from a say husband or BF saying "I love my wife (or GF) and I love that she loves her BF (or husband). If that makes sense. Therapy is...

I completely agree that it's healthy and great that he trusted me enough to open up. I prefer it to cheating or growing resentment of me for wanting something and not pursuing it. I'm still trying to grapple with the idea of more than one love but, my therapist has me trying to take my steps a...

thank you!

Totally makes sense. In this case the intimacy/romance would be a bonus. He is after emotion/intelligence to keep his brain stimulated. He's a thinker. One of those people who you think is crazy when they complain at work that they have no work to do vs kick their feet up and get paid to do...

Responded separately (tried to) but forgot to say, thx for the links, I'll check them out.

Galagirl - I tried responding to your message but ran into error messages. From the beginning of my relationship, my husband told me if he didn't satisfy me I could find someone else to help. I always told him I didn't see myself doing that. I mentioned that I thought that should have been my...

One of my proud moments was when I was with my ex and had a child that I not only maintained my job but obtained one with career growth. I secured my own financial independence back then. My husband does satisfy me 100% (physically and mentally) which is why I think I was saddened to understand...

New here. About me: A little over a month ago my spouse (50s M) of 14 years (together 18 yrs) opened up to me (50s F) that he has come to the realization he is poly. He'd been thinking about this for quite some time. Ge's reached a point where it's keeping him up at night. He knows we have a...