Recent content by Kat

Redpepper – You are super awesome! Thanks for the suggestion. I have already been all over ever thread I could find looking for monos and have found tons of great reads. :D I’m desperately hoping to find a local "mono in a poly" friend to hang with. My new online buddies are great and I love...

Ready2Fly, This is all still so very new for me (us?). It’s been 19 days since bf’s announcement to me. I’m not sure how I feel exactly. I am trying extra hard to be “ok” with our new poly arrangement. So far nothing feels different. I meet new gf once. We’ve talked on the phone. She’s...

Mono/poly possibilities Pantheist, I am a mono chick with a poly bf. I did not know he was poly when we started dating a year and a half ago. We had been mono together for the whole time. I was completely devastated when he announced to me that he was poly, had met someone else and wanted...

To MonoVCPHG - It is because of people like you that I can find some comfort here. Thank you! I love my bf more than words can express and he may love me more! Although poly is new to me, I do not (yet?) feel jealous, unloved, not special, replaced, or unwanted. I do, however, feel like I’m...

Interesting article. Thanks for sharing I am mono and very new to this poly thing. I was completely distraught when my bf first told me he wants to be poly, in large part because I don’t want the hassle of living an alternative lifestyle. I already have to deal with the “stigma” of being a...

I will keep you all up-to-date on how we're doing. I really appreciate the support I've found here. Thank you :)

Right now I am very happy to remain mono. Being poly looks like it requires more energy that I have to give. However, I will never say never. Life is full of change.

Thanks for your support vodkafan:)

Kat's story Hi. I’m new to the forum. I posted a short intro already. However I want to tell more of my story over here because I suspect I am a struggling mono! I am a female mono in a mono/poly. I am super new to poly. My BF is beginning to explore a new crush. Until now we had been...

I'm trying to stay upbeat and positive. Our relationship is wonderful, solid and fulfilling. My BF has assured me that he would not do anything to hurt what we have. I trust him. I'm sure this will be very challenging for me and him. But he's awesome and so worth it!

I have spent a while reading through the forum as a visitor and thought I'd join in. I am a female mono in a mono/poly. I am super new to poly. My BF is beginning to explore a new crush. Until now we had been monogamous. We've been together for 1 1/2 years. I don't yet have any poly...