Recent content by Katinnyc

Thanks, everyone, for your perspective. My partner and I had a good conversation last night. (And some nice sex! :) ) To be fair, he has a fairly physically demanding job, and I can get up in my own feelings. But he is the furthest thing from cold towards me, and wants nothing but my...

Yes! For me, sexual exchange is such a big part of bonding with my closest partners. I think maybe I need to have a little more patience with him about it. His idea of bonding is a little different than mine. We just need to find common ground.

There is real love, for sure. We truly care about and want the best for each other and are in it for the long run. He’s super supportive and loving in a lot of other ways. We both want to share our lives together. Of that, I’m sure.

Haha. Sorry for using the Reddit thing. I’m just feeling really down on myself for needing more than my partner can give. Humor is my coping strategy. I feel kind of like I’m mourning the idea of what I thought this relationship could be. Just all around sad about it. The beauty of polyamory...

My primary partner and I have been together for about four years. I asked him to move in around year one. I’m still as passionate about him as when we first started dating. The thing that really drew me to him was that we were both a couple of horny pervs who liked lots of sex. I understand...