Recent content by Kay23

Thanks everyone. You are right we are not ready for poly. I don't know if I'll ever be. I went to see my psychologist this morning and described the sort of affection John needs from me and he said he sounded like a teenage boy rather than a grown man. And that the sex and passion in 11 year...

Hi, First of all thanks for this wonderful forum and all the amazing people on here. My husband John and I are newbies to polyamory. He's met someone who he's really excited about seeing. And I'm a mess. We recently had a conversation that goes to the heart of our relationship. And it has...

Hi Nadya, Thanks for replying. Yes the timing is pretty bad but John's reassured me of his love for me and the utmost importance of our relationship. Feeling a bit better and the uncomfortable feelings are beneficial in that they are forcing me to look at stuff I'd been avoiding for some time. I...

Thanks Kevin. We have had a couple of very very in depth conversations about what I'm feeling and why we are exploring polyamory. It's made me feel a little more secure. It's also made me realise how much I'd been taking John for granted and how much he needs the intimacy of touch and closeness...

My partner and I are starting out on a polyamory journey. But I'm not sure that we are doing so for the right reasons. I've read lots of others' experiences where they'd said they couldn't be monogamous and polyamory felt right. That's not my experience. We started exploring polyamory because...