K and O have been out on a dinner date all evening and being able to talk my problems out with you guys have somewhat made me realise how wrong I was about a lot of things.
Thank you to everyone that replied and offered helpful advice, I apologise if i couldnt answer each response fully.
But...
No sex just making out and cuddles currently. Not so far devastated, just i dont know how to really explain it.
And yes when im not with either i do feel sort of lonely.
It's not really a jealousy insurance thing when it comes to wanting sexual activity as a group.
Nor would it be a 'show' for...
K and O are taking things slowly which is what i asked for and respect them for it.
Sexual wise they haven't done anything, ive asked if things like that did happen I'd prefer if all 3 of us was involved for the first time.
I haven't really said they cant see each other, that's one route i...
Thank you for replying
We have tried to discuss the jealousy part many times but they just keep recurring and i really cant shake them (partly being an aspergers sufferer, its common with us unfortunately)
Also the depression part sounds about right again, but the citalopram i was on was...
Hello.
Im new to all this so forgive any mistakes.
Ive been with my girlfriend for 5 years (6 this year) and a few months back she told me she was polyamorus when she started falling for another guy.
I stupidly lied about my feelings toward it, she went to this other guy's place for a night...