Recent content by Kerfuffle

You have tough time ahead and my heart aches for you. I hope in time it works out. I don't think you intend to hurt or change your husband, but a big change in mindset will be necessary on his part for him to even understand you.

From my perspective and knowing what some Christians believe, I suspect he feels that her having other relationships is as morally wrong as molesting a child. Would he not threaten to take the kids away to protect them from something he felt was that wrong (to him)? Even if you disagree, is it...

I'm on your side Journeyofawakening and going through something similar myself. I feel you're not being completely honest with yourself though. Like WhatHappened I also get the feeling that your desire and intentions are different than you state. I'm not saying your desire and intentions are...

Well said! It's been a constant fight between the feelings I have that are external "is she a friend that's a girl, or a girlfriend?" and my real feelings that are internally true "how much do I love this person? how much do I want to share intimately with her?". It hasn't been obvious which are...

Thank you! That is wonderful knowing you relate to it. I also appreciate you sharing your thoughts. When I realized that I felt this type of love I had an "aha" moment... but couldn't describe what the "aha" was. You really have to feel it to understand it. It's easier to say what it's not than...

Thank you! I've learned quite a bit already from so many viewpoints and I've barely started.

Hi everyone! Thanks to a trip to the ER psych ward a year ago I've discovered I'm not the heterosexual monogamous male I thought I was all this time. Nope, I'm a polyamorous, pansexual, demisexual, gender-fluid male. Doesn’t that roll off the tongue! I would feel like a freak wearing all those...