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    Having trouble sleeping at boyfriend's house!

    Thanks.... although an update.... I didn't sleep more than 30 minutes at his house this week. I don't know what to do and I don't want to take drugs!
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    Having trouble sleeping at boyfriend's house!

    Just an update: broke up with one boyfriend but still with the one whom I am most connected to (we are Soulmates) The last time we slept together--- at a hotel even-- I slept. yay! (and yes, I meant sex, by intimacy). i think it helped that we had a full glass of wine, and had a relaxing...
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    Having trouble sleeping at boyfriend's house!

    Thanks for all of the replies! I wasn't getting the notifications or I would have responded earlier. It struck me what someone said about the slower pace. As far as intimacy goes there is no way to go back. Especially the one b/f I am with, we are extremely connected. But if slower pace...
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    Having trouble sleeping at boyfriend's house!

    Thanks for sharing how you can relate! I felt really bad this last time because my boyfriend surprised me by saying he wanted to get a hotel. It was a really nice one too! But I had already stayed at a hotel earlier in the week with the other guy and I didn't get any sleep. So I told him I...
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    Having trouble sleeping at boyfriend's house!

    Hi everyone, I am fairly new to Poly. I have had two boyfriends for a little over a month now and I am also married. I am loving being Poly! But my frustration is that when I spend the night at their house, or even at a hotel, I cannot sleep at all. I think I got maybe one hour of sleep...
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    New and starting to notice my insecurities

    I'm glad you understand. I honestly wasn't really attracted to the second guy. I only liked how we have some things in common so maybe we are more compatible as friends.
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    New and starting to notice my insecurities

    Thanks for your thoughts. I guess I was afraid I was being too picky since my first date set the bar so high. This other guy is very nice and we have a lot in common but I didn't feel the same energy with him. I guess I am afraid to say something. But I will.
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    New and starting to notice my insecurities

    Thank you for thinking of me! Things are going really well. I went on my first date on Thursday and we instantly connected and fell hard for each other. We actually hooked up last night and it was amazing. and my husband fell in love too. Now my issue, is that I compare my new love to...
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    How to have sex in with others in Open Marriage

    Thanks. I thought about hotels but being that I don't have a lot of money I would expect the guy to foot the bill. However, not sure if that is practical on a somewhat regular basis. So I guess I Just have to be upfront and only date people who are either single or in a more open poly...
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    How to have sex in with others in Open Marriage

    Hi everyone, So as I've said in other threads, my husband and I are in an open marriage. We don't desire to have anyone live with us. So it just dawned on me. If we meet and fall in love with someone else who is also married but may not want to share their marriage bed, how the heck do we...
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    Success on OkCupid?

    That's great, "dafari" ..... I think my concern is that I am married so people might wonder if I am trying to flirt with them.
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    Success on OkCupid?

    Yes, I hate the pressure of having to word things just right so we can impress someone. That being said, most of the guys I have messaged have replied right away and started a decent conversation. And a couple of guys initiated contact and I replied because they seemed like nice guys. I'm...
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    New and feeling too controlling

    It's starting to go well actually! I have plans to meet someone next week and I'm really excited about it. It's true that I was a lot more apprehensive about dating than my husband was. I'm starting to feel more confident though!
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    How do you 'Flirt'?

    I guess this is why the online dating can help. Do you think it's bad to take off a wedding ring? My husband ended up taking his off but mostly because it has a cross on it and we are no longer religious (long story). I am totally fine with him not wearing one and in fact I thought it was...
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    Success on OkCupid?

    Since I made this post I ended up signing up after all. Wow, I do get a ton of messages! I mostly ignore them because I can tell right away that they are duds. However I did have two guys message me and one of them wants to meet for coffee next week! (and another guy does too but I haven't...
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