In a way but not really, its not a standpoint of jealousy but, im worried about the perspective of the friend getting the wrong intentions from my partner, hence this friend has a history of being played and that through my partner initiating naked cuddles that this friend is not only suddenly...
Based on our conversations ive been very clear about that, and hes respects that. Since its become a conversation he has stopped hanging out with the friend entirely “untill i have a conversation with the friend”
Again thank you for replying i appreciate the insights :) ive actually been encouraged by my partner to connect with them because of the conversations we’ve had and he made the decision to start avoiding them untill i have that conversation, which is pressure on my end, therefore i should have...
Thanks Kevin for the insight! As of this moment he has no partners and the way he describes this friendship is that its purely platonic, i do trust his word on that just based on how he interacts with this friend, and the new development of him initiating naked cuddling is very out of character...
I think its sits differently with me big time, just based on the information i have, i truly dont know what the friends intentions are, weather its platonic therapeutics or if theres a romantic interest. Through the perspective of my partner however is purely platonic.
I really appreciate you taking the time for reading and sharing insight through your perspective, i definetly agree that its up to the person and if thats what my partner does, thats their choice but it is a dealbreaker with me.
My partner and i agree to disagree about the cuddling naked...
So my partner and i are going on 2years. Lately there was a boundry that was unexpectedly broken, which was he initiated naked cuddles with a friend of his without my knowledge only to tell me after. This put me off guard because i wouldn’t have known that this would have made me feel...