first I commend you and appreciate a woman like you. I love receiving head but giving cunnilingus is my passion in life lol. But I am the same way and if she's not smelly good down there or its Rank or plain tastes bad that is a sign something is off with them. Semen and sperm production depends...
did you have any luck with Fetlife before...I am in a similar situation but having explored many apps now including the ones mentioned above is that they are a time suck and money suck for not much in return. A little known secret about Dating apps:
about 90 percent of them are created and owned...