Recent content by kissapolygrrl

I just started dating a new guy. I'm really liking him and it's so refreshing after my last relationship which, in hindsight (well not really, I kinda knew it at the time) was NOT healthy and was SO full of drama drama DRAMA. He's super cute, so intelligent, funny, an amazing kisser ::swoon...

When I felt NRE (new relationship energy) in the past with my previous partner, I also wanted to spend as much time as possible with him. It was a whirlwind of awesomeness going on in my heart...but yes I can relate to that guilt. I made sure to give my primary partner lots of love and extra...

I don't have much to add except to say that I'm in a similar position with my ex (i hate hate hate saying that). We split up and I felt like my heart was being torn out. I can't imagine being friends with him or his partner at this point but who knows if I'll feel differently later. Basically...

Okay so my title probably isn't the most appropriate but I didn't know what else to call it. I understand that everyone does things differently and that's one of the things I both love and hate about poly LOL! So start out, here's the dynamic: Me (F, pansexual) My partner: Bear (M...

I'm so sorry you're hurting. I can't fathom having that many losses at once. My heart is still hurting from my single loss so I can't imagine what you're experiencing. :hugs:

I have had this happen when I was in my relationship with Charlie Brown. We would have a great date, lots of making out, and I"d be super turned on. I'd go home and a few hours later, my primary partner, Bear and I would have sex. But I wasn't thinking about Charlie Brown...it was definitely sex...

GAH! It's been so long since I had to "get over" a breakup...and I know it'll happen eventually but right now, it feels impossible. I am so sick of the ups and downs...I'll be happy...then I'll get super sad...then I"ll get angry. It just sucks. I'm tired of thinking about him...and I'm tired of...

It's really sweet of you to think about them in that way. Some babies handle car trips extremely well and I'm sure they know that about their baby. If they feel like they want to come, let them. Otherwise, just explain to them what happened, keep talking and connecting and eventually you'll have...

I'm utterly heartbroken. Yesterday, my boyfriend told me that us dating was putting such a major strain on his marriage and he ended things. The absolute sh*t thing is that we are so good together. He's everything I would want in another partner and I care about him so deeply. I wasn't "in love"...

I have my primary partner and another person I'm seeing, we'll call him Charlie Brown. We've only been seeing each other a short time but I can see it growing. Charlie Brown also has a primary partner. Both of us have been married to our partners for a long time and they are number one. Which is...

I sometimes feel guilty because my husband is so amazing...but I think that's because we are conditioned by society to feel that way. I feel in my soul that this is who I am and I am so blessed to have two men that are so incredible in my life!

Hello everyone. I'm very new to this forum and selfishly, I joined simply because I deeply need to talk to others and sort out my own thoughts. My husband and I have been exploring polyamory and I know it's who I am but that doesn't stop the fact that I'm deeply struggling with the new...