Thanks for all your replies and advice! I've updated my signature so I can use names now and not get confused :) I had another talk with Michelle and she told me I was overthinking things and that as long as I kept her up-to-date on how things with Al were going, she's fine with it. So lots of...
Thanks for your reply! I have talked to Wife about it and she says she's fine with me pursuing him, and we're always very honest with each other so I'm sure she means it (and she has a terrible poker face anyway, so I'd know if she wasn't). I'm just worried that being okay with it before the...
Background: I'm a woman in a committed domestic partnership with another woman. We've been together for four years and consider ourselves married (the state we live in doesn't allow gay marriage or we would be). We've discussed polyamory on multiple occasions and have always agreed that we're...