Recent content by Kittywitch

We attend a UU church when we have the money to get there (it's about 30 mins away, on the other side of town, and the ONLY one in town). We asked the preacher if he would do a group commitment ceremony and he said he would, so that made me happy. No other religion (aside from non-religion and...

as I've said, previously, and since, we were/have been in near constant contact (aside from when he's sleeping). So, yes, it IS what I'm used to. and it's not just me. If i leave the room for something, I regularly return to 2 + txts waiting for me.

This is part of why I was concerned. I've said for years now that I refused to be what I refer to as a "closet girlfriend"; someone who you're dating in secret. I also know that this is a bit no-no in regard to polyamory. While we've been texting for now a week and a half (since the 22nd), my...

The very first thing to remember about being polyamorous, especially if you are just starting out, or looking into it, is that jealousy will happen. And, to me at least, it sound like that's what's happening here. The difference between being poly and not, is the ability to talk through the...

I finally heard back from him, about 30 hours after I first contacted him. Apparently he was just busy and his company stayed the night. While my panic wasn't completely for not, he and I have talked about it.

I've no idea if it was a date, company, or what. He didn't mention anything just that he had company.

A few questions While I'm not new to polyamory in and of itself (I've been poly for 7 years), this is something that I've never experienced before and has been troubling me all day. A little backstory: I am engaged to a man (who's not on the site) that I live with. We've been together for...

I posted a few of these of my own! http://polyinthemedia.blogspot.com/2011/05/next-great-poly-slogan.html#c6258938024037380251

I was contacted yesterday by a gentleman on OK-Cupid from Illinois. At first I was a bit hesitant, as he is many years (25 to be precise) my senior. I've been talking to him on instant messenger for about an hour now, and so far so good, though I'm not certain how far things will go. I leave it...

Well, compared to previous relationships, where my fiance barely knows those who I'm dating, a quad where they are at least friends would be a plus.

I have to agree as well. The "Man Code" that seems to be a book that is given to each little boy that tells them not to cry, not to talk about their feelings, and never EVER express any interest in other males, is a book that I would love to destroy. Sure there are those who ignore it, but...

For the past year and a half, my Fiance' and I have been in the search for a couple or group to date together. We can find people interested in him only, and people interested in me only, but never someone who is actively looking for a couple. Well, that's not completely true. There was a...

I know, right! Lets see 24 - 9 - 8(assuming, for sleep) = 7 hours of the day to do whatever you please!! geez *sigh* some people...

I, unfortunately, had to let an SO go today because he failed most of these (he maybe got 3...). He got all upset saying that i expected too much cause he worked 9 hr days. *sighs*

Having known several people who overlapped poly and swinging, I know that it's definitely not for me. While if I'm in a relationship with someone I'm a fairly easy lay, I've had too many people refer to me as a whore/slut, mostly because I freely flirt with those I find attractive. My fiance's...