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    Non transparency on Poly couple

    I think this is all bullshit. My husband has no problem meeting partners on okcupid. He is upfront about who he is, what our relationship is like etc. He’s not a model, I’d say a solid 7, is closer to 50 than 30, has limited funds and can never host or even sleepover. It’s not poly makiNg it...
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    How to Make it About Her...When it's not About Her?

    The bottom line is this isn’t about her, it’s about you. Your not coming to this because you were thinking, I know what my wife would really enjoy… The thing is everyone has those feelings of wanting more, crushes, hot new sex, getting to know new people intimately. You choose marriage however...
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    New mono/poly questions

    Yes, but I’m not worried he will leave. I know that it sounds that way but really it’s that if I can’t get on board faster he’ll stop working on our relationship. I am really struggling with the fact that he is getting so much with no hurt or sacrifice while I am giving up what I had and stuck...
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    New mono/poly questions

    What about on relationship shape? I honestly don’t know. I am open to the idea of seeing someone else but not interested in doing so If you weren't with him... would you do mono-poly with other people? I think it has been so long since I’ve been with someone else I don’t even know how to...
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    New mono/poly questions

    I’m not sure what I am looking for…I am mono, married for 22 years to my “surprise” I’m poly husband. He brought up poly 7 years ago and I shut it down- If he wanted that I was out. We did therapy and were good for a number of years, but slowly things turned and this winter he brought it up...
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