Recent content by Klayton

I sympathise. There have been times when I've been stuck with a phone or a very basic computer, and it is difficult and frustrating to try and write a long post. For me though, it's worth taking the extra time to (laboriously) scroll back and check and correct, just so that my post will be...

Hi Janndemery, and welcome to the forum. I do sympathise with your situation. You sound like a really genuine person, and I'm glad that you've discovered poly and all the joy it can bring. Your current situation is of course a difficult one. I take it your partners don't know about each other...

Long posts where the author doesn't break up the text into paragraphs often annoy me. I'm forgiving of spelling and grammar issues, but surely it's not that hard even for a non-native speaker to present a post in a readable way.

What a shame it ended that way. From that little passage you quoted it seems as though the author really understands the poly outlook :(

Some very good advice already, which it would be very much worth reading and thinking about. I just wanted to add that, although it might be difficult to give up your relationship with your boyfriend, it might be worth it in the long run. It sounds as though you want a poly relationship and he...

I've had this issue before when I've had more than one partner. Even though I enjoy sex, I don't "finish", and while it doesn't bother me it seems to bug them immensely. It seems to be a really hard sell to persuade a woman that--although I don't come--I still enjoy sex with her. I found it...

Pleased to meet you Jan. Good to find someone who's coming into this at the same time as me--you'll have to keep me up to date on how things are going. Is there much of a scene in South Wales? Either way I wish you all the very best.

Everyone's different. For some a monogamous relationship will be perfect and for some it will be restrictive and painful. Equally for some a polyamorous relationship will be ideal and for others it will cause suffering. I guess the possibility of "abuse" (if you want to call it that) can arise...

I think the factor that makes a person's behaviour into "serial monogamy" rather than "what most monogamous people do" is the lack of a gap between relationships. So someone who spent very little time being single in between a series of monogamous relationships would probably be looked on as a...

Thanks lovefromgirl and Kevin. I feel pretty welcome already :)

Excellent, glad to know I'm not alone. Haha, Canada did strike me as a particularly friendly place, at least from what I saw. I'll be sure to have a look. Cheers, and pleased to meet you.

Hello everyone. I'm Klayton and I'm from England. Is anyone else here from England, or it mostly the USA? Anyway, I've not yet had a full-on poly relationship. That said I've never been happier or more fulfilled than the times in my life when I was in an open relationship or casually dating a...