Recent content by koihugs

Thank you all for your observations and comments, i take them to heart, and appreciate them. It's a relief to hear from people in the know... :) Without a doubt any number of incredibly reasonable, loving people would have left this situation a long time ago and not dealt with the outbursts or...

Hi all, I apologize for being a bit of a lurker and then springing out with an issue. I seek... something understanding, open poly ears. I'm so lost. In the end this may not be a poly issue. It may just be different personalities. I am in a triad, it's my husband, our girlfriend and me (i'm...

Hi Michou, I'm in a poly-fi triad similar to what you're in. I'm the married lady in a relationship with my husband and girlfriend. I was married for 10 years before my relationship between my girlfriend, husband and I started. My triad started over 3 years ago. The feelings you're having...

Committment Ceremonies Hi folks, My partners (FFM triad) and I are going to have a wedding this summer. We have an officiant, and we're looking for a venue. We expect to have under 50 people at our ceremony. We're in the upper midwest. In addition to the normal planning woes we have the...

little koi of love Hi folks, Excuse the title - I'm feeling a little corny right now. Tee hee. I've been in a closed triad for 3 years. I was married to my husband for 10 years before that. I just proposed to my girlfriend, and she said yes! Soon our man will be proposing to her as well...