Recent content by koolaid

I am glad I am not alone in thinking that this unhappiness does indeed stem from this relationship, and it's not all just on me. It is however, up to me to change it. I really hope either of us can be adults about this. I know she cares a lot about me, but she has to understand how equally...

I will say this in her defense, she does spend time with me when she can, but I feel more like a roommate than anything. I still feel like it's my fault for not being social enough, or not giving her enough space. I just don't have the same motivations to go out and meet new people. I will say...

Sorry for the delayed response, I appreciate each and every one of you. I am awful at communicating, but, we had a big talk, which was mostly just me being sad and her being like, 'You're projecting your sadness onto me.' One of the rules I had set to be accepting of the whole poly thing was...

i should state that i am mono, and am with someone who is poly. i knew this before hand, and had a relationship with my partner beforehand, but it didn't work out because they can't be mono... but they liked me an awful lot, and couldn't make being poly work out for themselves at the time. so...