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    Longing, the boy that could have been, and where to go from here

    So today it was. I can't compute my emotional soup right now. I feel like I could explode with love for him. And his boyfriend is wonderful and they are perfect together. I couldn't feel happier or more heartbroken at the same time. I guess more will become apparent when I've had some...
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    Longing, the boy that could have been, and where to go from here

    Thanks for this. I know advice given is reinforcing what you know I know to be true (GalaGirl) and I take it as it's intended. It's hard to truly let go, even when you know you have to. Added to that, I'd hate to think of feel that he ever should imagine me indifferent or unreachable. How to...
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    Longing, the boy that could have been, and where to go from here

    Hi again everyone, I'm heartbroken. The Day I Knew Had To Come for so many reasons has come and, as all of this is a bit new and a bit of a mess it's hitting me hard. My husband and I had a 'non monogamy' agreement for a while. He met a boy. A lovely boy. They really clicked and - although...
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    Whirlwind introduction

    Thanks so much for the welcome everyone. Weirdly, the same day I finally signed up here, I actually started chatting to someone on Grindr who turned out to be poly. He's given me a lot of great food for thought. I've also read some threads now. I guess I was daunted at first, but, really, I'm...
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    Whirlwind introduction

    Phew! Thanks :D
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    Whirlwind introduction

    OMG. Rookie mistake. This was meant for the Introductions forum :( Can a mod move it? :/ Sorry :/ :/
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    Whirlwind introduction

    Hey guys. I'm new to all this and because I've been winging it, I'm now in a bit of a mess - because I've fallen in love again. I'm a gay man from the UK. I'm in my early 30s and married and been with my husband for 10 years - we met just after we graduated and I moved back to my home city...
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