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I just told my husband that I could not be with him right🙁

Powerpuffgirl I not sure what you would have called us bc I thought she was someone that were we just playing with. And yea I guess you could call her our GF. Then once we found out she was pregnant and my husband talked me in to letting her move in ( in June) (she moved out in July) I think...

From everything I have read and what you all have told me this is not how a poly relationship is. Everyone is supposed to get along and be on the same page.. Iam right or Iam missing something. I know I can accept being in a poly relationship but everything just feels so wrong bout how this is...

Powerpuffgirl I have thought of that.. it's in my mind everyday. Even though he has told me that she understands that he would never leave me. I do not put it pass her to try it. I want to talk to her and here from her mouth that she understands that she is the GF/ baby momma and that Iam the...

Her giving up her rights is out of the question. Trust me I would love that but that will never happen.. and mine husband giving up his rights either. He want to be there to take care of his son...

Nope no job I think that she expected him to support her but I have put my foot down about that... she wants someone to take her.. and she doesn't like the idea of my husband telling her that he would never leave me.. he has made that clear to her. She is very jealous of me.. I am not jealous of...

dragonette.. he won't be living with her. She can't even afford her on place. She lives with her parents. And I have made it clear that I/we are not financially supporting her. That I/ we will support the child. And I have also made it clear that I would never live in the same house with her...

I want to thank everyone for the advice Iam feeling more comfortable about the situation and of course still learning everything I can.. I know I Gina have my up and downs with it but I love my husband and I think Iam gonna be ok. Thanks again everyone

I want work on us like I keep telling him and he is kinda working on us. I know that he wants to be with me full time sorry I don't know the terminology yet. And that we will be together most of the time bc Iam his wife and he has said numerous times that he would never leave me. He has also...

I have read the book "more then two" serveal times. I have asked him about making an agreement about when they see each other and he doesn't want to do that. As he put it he doesn't want to be on a sch with her. As to regards to her acting like a child. She is a "little" and Pouts about...

Sorry it been a while since I have posted anything. My husband and I have taking some and I have been doing a lot of thing. I reading the post and I know that some asked bout our ages. Iam 39 my husband is 31 and the baby mamma as I her is 21 going on 12.. because she is a child. I thought I...

Yea powerpuffgrl I have already thought bout that. Iam not supporting her or the child. That is his doing.

Thanks it helped hearing advice from poly people and getting their perspective on this l. I need to do a lot of thinking

Yea that is what he thought would happen that I would just be ok with everything now but Iam not. I mean maybe I could be on down the rd but now no

I didn't know he was like this when I married him. And to be honest I think if he would have told me this before I might be handling the situation a lot better. The girl was our GF someone that we both played with together but he fell in love with her too and started a relationship with her...