Recent content by ladyjane

Thank you KC43 for that :) Whilst some things that happened wasn't right...upon reflection I wouldn't say it was emotional abuse (although others around me had disagreed). Definitely didn't think it was right though, but I question if he had any bad intentions when he did it. Leaving abusive...

Thank you Lunabunny and KC43, your words have meant a lot. Everyone on here has been so lovely and supportive even though I know so little about being poly, so thank you for your patience and sensitivity. My therapist actually said the same thing to me, that he was being emotionally abusive...

Thank you guys for the support and replies. They've really helped me to process things. I understand so little about being poly and I'm so new to dating...the difference in age and experience was too much I think. In answer to a few questions; I never intended to date him. We were friends and...

So basically, i'm hoping to look for support and some sort of validation that I'm not alone in feeling like this, and thank anyone who has a chance to read and respond. So I was with an older guy (47 and I'm 23) who is poly. Thing is...our relationship was quite complicated because i refused...

Hi all, thank you so much for all the awesome responses! People here are so lovely. Especially @JaneQSmythe, i need to look into this relationship escalator thing. Well I've concluded that I suck at communicating. He invited me over to his house for dinner. Said his girlfriend would be...

Hi all, Thank you so much for your responses! I think what ive taken from this is that I need to listen to my emotions right now because clearly they mean something, and that il need to have that difficult conversation with him if this is ever going to continue. And in that process communicate...

Hi there, Not sure where to go for help, and this was the first forum that popped up so I hope somebody can please read and pass on some advice. I know nothing about polyamarous relationships, it's all very different to me. Recently i started dating someone who was poly, it happened by...