Recent content by Leedia

Feeling pretty judged right now and I'm wondering if this was a good idea. Just a little bit if clarification, I was not on okc trolling for men. I had a profile back when I was dating and had seen there were some poly people on there. I searched for and messaged women to hear about their...

It was definitely off the table for him to touch another man at all, I knew that from the start. What I learned recently was his aversion to even being in the same room in an intimate enviornment including us and another guy. We talked about that and I'm willing to work around it. The group sex...

Thanks so much to you both! These are great views and I'll encourage him to read them. I don't think we can ever get past his unwillingness to participate in sex near or puppy piles with another guy, but hopefully we can come to a point where I am free to be involved with another man with his...

I'm new here and this seems like a great place for people to support each other. We are just getting started in poly and last night had an unsuccessful conversation about boundaries. Long story short, I'm bi, he's not, almost to a phobic degree I feel, and is really struggling with the idea...

I'm so sorry. Hopefully you three (or four) can work something out but that is a blow to your trust in him. Thank you for writing about your lives. My husband and I are considering poly and your experiences are a great model for us.

Hi everyone, My name is Lydia, I am 25 years old and happily married. I am bisexual and have identified as such since college, but never got the chance to explore it. My husband and I had discussed threesomes and such since we were dating, but nothing ever came of it. A few days ago I brought...