Thanks for the references and tips! Thats stuff we’ll definitely be discussing more in depth. We did talk about the emotional side of this issue and he is not at the point where he wants me to be emotionally involved with someone else past a FWB. We’ve discussed co-dependency, and the “tied at...
Great advice! That might be something that works or can at least be given a shot at. My husband thinks it “could“ work out to also try and find a bisexual male/male couple who would be interested in an ongoing “side relationship“ with a woman ( I’m personally not interested in a sexual...
Yeah JW’s and Mormans both are scary fuckers. I can finally admit to being an atheist now which is like “ahhhhhhh“ so freeing. What frustrates the hell outta me is that my parents are decent people *overall* and I was never abused by them and they encouraged my education. They treated my gay...
Thanks! I’m sorry your wife isn’t open to exploring this with you, but maybe given time that’ll change? It took a while for my husband to get therapy to try and find out what his issue was with sex & why it was so hard for him to have any sexual desire. He’s had multiple tests to find out if it...
We’ve been married 9 yrs now and since our wedding this has been an ongoing issue. For several years he was able to find excuses for his lack of interest in sex. He legitimately has a very stressful job AND a few different health probs that make it understandable. I didn’t know it at the time we...
Heya,....yeah I‘m just looking for the physical intimacy that my psyche requires. My husband has always had a very low sex drive. He’s admitted to needing a few drinks before forcing himself to do it ever since he was 18, and for the longest time he thought it was the product of job stress...
Heya Peeps! So yeah I have about a bazillion questions but obvs I’m gonna have to cut that down to just an important few. My husband is Asexual and it’s something he’s been able to admit out loud and talk about more in the last year or so. I’m having a very tough time with it because I’m a...