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    Guidance on early steps of a quad needed...

    Hi Magdlyn, I am very sorry to hear about this experience it is indeed bad. On the other hand your words have helped me greatly and I think they also apply here. It still might be in the present moment that you met and dated that he liked you and wanted to explore his feelings with you. Sex is...
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    Guidance on early steps of a quad needed...

    True, true and true. I think open communication is the key here and probably will follow your suggestion as well. Thanks a lot! 🙏😊
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    Guidance on early steps of a quad needed...

    Hi Magdlyn, actually this is very helpful to know. With my spouse we discussed in the car the responses I got here and we came down to the same conclusion that we need to take a step back and breathe to give it some time for us for them for everyone to figure out if we there are feelings, how...
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    Guidance on early steps of a quad needed...

    Yes I got the idea and I think you got a different idea about our situation in and out of our relationship. But thanks for the idea, will try to apply it. 😊
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    Guidance on early steps of a quad needed...

    Hi Magdlyn, thanks for the insightful article it was a good read indeed. I think some of those stuff described apply to most Poly couples including us. I hear you we come of as that and yes we are individuals (MF couple) but bi both (same as the other couple). I also see the point about the...
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    Guidance on early steps of a quad needed...

    Hey Kevin, thanks for the message and sort of wake up call. That’s what we are also thinking and are afraid of. That either they don’t feel the same or they are not going to easily communicate what they are feeling. Any advice on how to approach them about this without scaring them away?
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    Guidance on early steps of a quad needed...

    Hi Galagirl, thanks for the intuitive answer that’s helpful actually. I think through these Apps it’s most common that you start sexually, then FWB and then something deeper and I think this is where we are now. But you really think it’s a good idea to openly address them about how we feel...
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    Guidance on early steps of a quad needed...

    Hi Evie, sounds like a goos idea and we thought about it but with Corona now it’s a bit difficult to plan for this, everything is closed so we always meet at home. But if you have any creative ideas that would help with this, please share. 😊
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    Guidance on early steps of a quad needed...

    Hallo FallenAngelina, thanks for responding to me. We met on Feeld and we openly shared with them from the start that we are poly and they said that they are open to it but they are very new to this lifestyle, in the sense that it was the first time that they opened their relationship aside...
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    Guidance on early steps of a quad needed...

    Hi everyone, Happy New Year! I decided to post today as the resolution for 2021 is to navigate through this new path of my life. Some background first, I am in a committed relationship for 9 years and for the past 5 we have opened our relationship to multiple experiences sexually and after...
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