Recent content by LethalTender

Enjoy the Slogan I have to admit that the catch phrase does hit the mark. As far as any possible pictures to go with it though, I am seeing either a clown juggling eggs with a few broken shells here and there, or person in a straight jacket with a heart on their chest wearing the ol' arrow...

Aaaand... I do pray wholeheartedly that she does give you a fair chance, that she is willing to try and get to know you and come to judge you for the person that you are, accepts you, and does not rely on some false images in her head. Just because she knew about his nature does not mean that...

Understanding It does make sense. You are the first. The beginning. And I guess there is that sense of pressure in being the capstone for all that is to follow, good AND bad. So your fear of her choosing to leave is natural. And quite frankly, your fear is a part of this new word I kept seeing...

Go for it If you want to meet your paramor's wife, then by all means go. At the moment, you are just an image in her mind that she is trying to cope with. By coming to see her, you will (at the very least) show that you are willing to face her and give her the chance to address her feelings and...

Hello and welcome Thats what we are here for. :D Lean and we will lean back as in time you very well just might have some of us coming to you for your thoughts. Take care and good luck in your venture.

Welcome I think that I am saying rightly, that those of us who frequent this forum are allways glad to see and greet a new person on the postings. That the concept of polyamory is relatively new in comparison to most other ideological beliefs I doubt that anyone can dare claim they are an...

Wishing The best possible outcome, that I fantasize and dream about, is that I should talk with my wife, and open up to her about all my feelings and my thoughts on our marriage and our lives, with the end result that she came to the decision that she was willing to accept my inclinations and...

My Two Cents First of all I would caution you to take only what I have to say with a grain of salt. As I myself am realtively new in the exploration of Polyamorism, my insights are still nacent and developing. You are curious about WHAT it is to be polyamory? I am not sure if it is a matter of...

Use the Jam Like two pieces of toast rubbing together, things are coarse and rough and uncomfortable. You may try using an intermediary. AKA your husband. While you may feel hurt about his continued relationship with her, I would think that you would be aware that the nature of his love for her...

Feeling for you I am not sure why I am posting a reply. Lord knows that I am quite a jam myself! Yet, the best that I can offer is simply my support and hope that when the time comes for you to have that talk, that things between you two will turn out to the good. Now, what exactly "to the...

An answer. In truth, I am not certain what I am to do with my wife. As of the moment I am deployed overseas, and I keep in touch with my family via the internet. I have made my bed, and I must sleep in it. This is a mess of my own making and I am not about to claim any pride in it. I do care...

edit your work I apologise for the rambling and horrible penmanship of my posting. I have tried to edit it 3 times, only to have my work disappear, as it seems that the time taken to edit it would cause me to be logged out of the forum. I had tried to copy/paste, but at one point I slipped and...

Welcome Just extending to you greetings and welcome. Heh... I myself am new on this forum as well. We.. all have our reasons for being here and from all I have read there is a weath, of experience here. The trick is asking the right questions I think. ;) I am involved in my own mess so I...

Thank you. I appreciate the welcome. I have read your story and I wish to express my gratitude for your openess. May your relationship continue to flourish and grown.

Welcome Just wanted to welcome you to the forums. I myself am rather new here myself. It is my ernest wish that you will find the answers that you are seeking here as am I. Take care and glad to meet someone else from Georgia.