Recent content by Letitbe

Good quote. :)

Ok, so, I am super proud of myself. My husband has been wanting to try poly for quite a while, but I've been dragging my feet. Although poly interested me, I was letting fear get in the way. What if he finds someone and I don't, what if I get jealous, what if nobody wants me, blah blah, blah...

Good advice. Thank you. I have forgiven him. I understand everyone makes mistakes and it was stupid on his part. But, he acknowledges that and is seeking counseling to better himself. I can forgive him once, but I told him if it happens again I will not be staying with him. I'm really hoping...

Good advice. Thank you.

My husband and I live in a conservative area and are planning on going to couples counseling. Has anyone found it difficult to find a polyamory-friendly counselor in conservative areas?

My husband and I have talked about poly and agreed on rules. He broke a rule. How can I trust him again? We have very good communication and have talked about this issue a lot. The question I posed to him was, "You promised you would never ever do this, and I trusted you wouldn't. But, you did...

I am from Wisconsin too. Feel free to send me a PM. :)

If you ever want to talk feel free to send me a PM.

I COMPLETELY understand. I'm new to this too.

I think by my parents/family and the media I was kind of brain washed into monogamy because I didn't know any other way. Before meeting my husband I was all about monogamy. When he told me he was polyamorous and I began learning and understanding polyamory, I realized it fit me. It's only...

I highly suggest meeting her. I was having jealousy issues of the other woman my husband was in love with. It really helped meeting her. Before meeting her I kind of put her on a pedestal. Meeting her and getting to know her, I realized she was human lol and a very nice person. It helped a lot...

Has anyone used polymatchmaker.com?

Books about jealousy Can anyone recommend a good book about coping with/getting over jealousy?

What would a baby step be?

Wow, thank you for sharing the article! Looks like I have been trying to overcome the wrong thing. What I thought was jealousy was actually envy. That's really going to change how I approach things. It's kind of mind blowing because I always thought I struggled with jealousy, but envy fits so...