Recent content by Limerence

I never knew that! That's a wonderful thing. Its amazing how technology is making it more possible to deal with long-distance relationships.

Skype can be a wonderful thing if you're in a long-distance relationship. You could also send e-mails, and contact each other through Facebook and instant messengers. What my old primary and I used to do is that we would have these little move nights. One of us would pick a movie to watch, we'd...

Thank you both. I am telling myself that all of this might've been for the greater good. At least I'm trying to fix some of the faults in my behavior.

I think joining a group like that, or at least finding a therapist that specializes in codependency would be very helpful. I'll definitely look into it. I also picked up the book 'Codependent No More', so hopefully that will help too. Thanks for your advice!

I'm currently going through a very tough separation from a close friend who was at one point my primary partner. Let me say first that I do not plan on playing the blame game, I'm just very hurt and looking for some advice on how to cope. I made mistakes in the relationship, just as she made...

Hello. :) You can call me Limerence, or Li, and I stumbled across this place while looking for strategies to deal with the separation from a very close friend who used to be my primary. I figured that this would be a nice place to get advice on how to cope, and maybe I could make some new...