Recent content by LloydN

Nadya, you're right. My lesson in life is to learn how to stop being passive, passive aggressive, and avoiding conflict. I like to think that this adventure into poly is forcing me to confront my issues in new ways. I need to identify what I need and want and ask for it. And if I'm in an...

I apologized for saying I'd divorce my wife for Beth a week before their wedding. Beth told him that I had said this, which I'm not happy with, but we're all in a place where we are reacting to each other, saying hurtful things. We need to slow down, talk, negotiate etc... Right now I feel I...

Wow. I should've posted on this forum months ago. The depth of the responses are challenging, encouraging, infuriating... but all ultimately supportive. Thank you. What amazes me is the level of honesty here. That's a big thing my church lacked... They may give you an honest answer, but it's...

Thanks everyone.. you are right, I don't want to fuck up their relationship, its not cool. We got ourselves in a sticky corner and now we have to figure out how to move on, nobly. I actually suggested to beth we end it, or I go find another partner that will meet my needs. She wouldn't accept...

First off, this is my first post. I've been interested in Poly for awhile and want to genuinely try it... unfortunately, I've made many (many, many) classic mistakes and now have to clean up the mess. I've read ethical slut, listen to poly weekly, etc... but translating book knowledge into real...