Recent content by lolahaze

Hi All, Thanks for your time... I'll keep it brief and factual... In December my partner (Jack) went overseas for 5 months to be with his other partner (Sophie). I stayed at home alone (I dont have another partner) - it was a hard 5 months. Within that time, the boundary was set as "we don't...

Personally I feel that poly relationships encourage open, honest, frank communication from the get go. Everyone needs to know where they stand and the sooner that conversation occurs with whatever the issue, the better... Best to get the facts straight before getting too emotionally entangled to...

Thanks Karen - all edited... Guess all my guards are up at the mo! You're perspective on jealousy is sound, thanks x

So here's the context of the issue at hand: There are 4 of us in this relationship; 2 women (Eve, Lizzie), 2 men (Tom, Adam). I'm Eve. I'm with Tom only and not had another partner so far. Lizzie is with Tom and Adam Tom is with Eve and Lizzie Adam is with Lizzieonly but has had casual things...

Thank you everyone First of all, thank you to everyone who's taken time out to respond, I'm finding this such a wonderful resource of information and support :) To shed some light on my relationship I'll answer Mr Far From Right's questions first: Q: Was your bf poly before you started with...

Hi I'm new to polyamory and have been involved with it only for the last 2 months or so. I've massive trust issues but my partner is very communicative and trustworthy which is helping me accept and embrace this relationship. My partner and I have been together for 8 months but he has met...