Recent content by longdistancerunner

Thank you all for the feedback, I really appreciate it. I'm going to wait and see where this ends up. In the meantime, I'll try my best to think about how I would handle a decision that means they'll be trying to have a baby. Guess it's always extra tricky when it comes to the big decisions.

Hi all! As many others, I'm a frequent reader on here. Not very big on the posting though. But the last time I posted on here I got a lot of great advice, so I figured I'd try again. A little background: I met my girlfriend about a year ago and she was the one who introduced me to poly. While...

Well, that is of course my greatest fear in this situation. If breaking up is what she wants, then her behaviour is completely unacceptable. It's one thing to, for example, ask for a temporary break because you need to think things over. Those type of situations often lead to an eventual...

She's definitely more introverted than I am, so that's really something that should be taken into consideration. So great to hear from other people that also needs more time alone!

I love that I'm getting what I was aiming for when I decided to start the thread: new perspectives. I definitely think you've got a point when you're saying that I'm more invested right now. The problem for me is the drastic kind of change when it comes to our time together. Since we've been...

Thank you for helping out. I think you're right about what you're saying about her not being able to give me a real answer. It's just such a frustrating situation, I don't really know what to do now. I've been keeping kind of a low profile lately, not asking her if she wants to get together etc...

Yeah, that's right. And I've tried to address this, but she's said that there's nothing wrong. So now I'm thinking about brining it up again, but not sure how to really do it.

Thanks for your reply! That's correct, I'm a man. I see what you're saying and I definitely recognise that kind of behaviour. But this is the first time that I've noticed it in this particular relationship. I guess that's why it's bothering me. I should add that neither she or the partner she's...

Hi! I'v been reading a lot here lately, but this is my forst post. I've been in a relationship with this girl for about 6 months. She was the on who introduced me to polyamory. At first it as curiosity that led me to start dating her, but pretty soon I realized I'd really enjoyed being in a...