Recent content by lorie876

Has anyone come out to their church and if so how were you all received after the reveal? I was raised Pentecostal and I am really unsure how the family will react to this. Most of them believe that polyamory is completely wrong and I have no idea how to deflect and deal with the questions that...

That is a major issue. I have no idea about this one, I have never met or talked to her, didn't even know she existed until his story about being with friends conflicted with their facebook posts and check ins (mutual friend). Betrayed and confused is how I feel and that is what I am having...

I don't really want a play-by-play, I know I can't handle that. I just can't take being lied to. This is the first time he has intentionally misled me about where he was. General info is an agreement. Like: hey I'm with GF tonight, don't worry. I don't need to know what they do or where they...

Poly hell absolutely. Time management absolutely. He usually informs me of a potential relationship before he starts, and I am always in on the decision process. He thinks that I can better feel out a woman because I don't have that sexual attraction to make me gloss over any flaws. I found out...

I don't date outside of my marriage, Haven't since we started dating in 2004. I don't want to be physical with other people and we are both okay with that. I feel that I am not as important as I was to him in the past. That his other relationships are taking priority over our marriage. This...

I have a say in my husband's relationships. I won't discourage someone without a good reason though. My main concern in all of his relationships is our kids. If I feel a person will cause an issue for them then I ask him not to see someone. I always get to know the person before making that...

My husband and I have been in poly relationships in the past and after several failed attempts decided to take a break from dating. Let me clarify that I do not date. He has been free to date other women as long as I am somewhat involved and approve of her (this is a safety issue for our kids)...