Recent content by Lostatsea

Answers to your questions might be summed up by the fallowing statements: 1) Everyone should be who they are regardless of who they are as long as they are not causing anyone harm in doing so. As long as things like abuse, neglect, and physical harm is not inflicted on others and everyone is...

A little about me. I am in a poly relationship. Sure it has it's problems but as I sat down with my wife and talk for hours we have wondered "What can we do to improve the world around us?" I am not rich. We live day to day making every dollar count. I am vegan. I am for equal rights for every...

The real question is "Is she worth the wait to you or is having sex right now more important to you than she is?" Everyone progresses or not in any relationship according to their comfort zone.

My thoughts on poly for me and my wife. 1) Is not about filling a void is about being open to loving more than one person. If you look to others to fill a void you will always be missing something. 2) Trust and honesty is huge. Love does not equal hope alone. Love + Truth = Hope. You both...

Be true to yourself with everyone around you in every way. People are happiest when they are themselves. If your family is a family then live as such. It sucks society frowns upon any loving relationship. I think that if more people were honest about who they are there would be a true eye opener...

I guess my real problem is dealing with the loneliness when she is gone. She said she misses me so much when she is gone, also. I guess the real question is, why would she need more if she feels this way? She tells me I mean so much to her that her love scares her. I have done all I can to show...

I am not sure if I am not interested, or just have not met like-minded people to explore it with. I want to see if it is something I desire, or not. She sees this, and wants me to have what she has. The truth is, I am happy with it just being me and her. I also like the thought of having more...

So, here I am living with this amazing woman who treats me so good I have to pinch myself every now and then just to believe she is real. She is also very sexy to look at. We have so much in common, except one thing. She is totally poly and I am undecided about it. I have tried to find others...