Recent content by lostfairy

It's more of "Which one looks better on me?" It's a choice issue for me. He ALWAYS tells me I look good when I dress up. :D But I very much like the going naked idea. Thanks. ;)

Hahaha! Great posts! Here's my little problem. I don't ask, "Does this make me look fat?" When I'm nervous about dressing up for something, I show him two earrings or two pairs of shoes and ask, "Which looks better?" or "Which one should I wear?" He gets frustrated and says he's a guy and...

update Thanks again to everyone for your advice and support. Here's a little update. My bf and I went to a swingers club last weekend. I got brave and introduced myself to a couple women sitting together. They were both married with their husbands there also. We ended up having a great time...

Thanks Thanks for the welcomes and advice so far. It really helps to hear from others. As for sharing a gf, what he wants is a relationship among 3 people, so a shared gf. If I were ever to have a poly relationship that is how I'd want it. I would want the love shared rather than him dating...

Hello, I have a million things to say and ask, and now I don't know where to start. I like to organize my thoughts, which are currently a big giant mess, so here is my mess: I never thought I wanted to be polyamorous, and I don't know if I want that now. My boyfriend of many years has often...