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I'm glad you took it in the spirit intended, and you seem willing to own your parts in this. My point was you can leave because you...

If it was about making the cake, he lives with his parents and his grandmother was visiting. He doesn't have any other relationships...

Many of the things you touched on are things I am working on. I literally started anxiety meds 2 days ago. I'm doing counselling on a...

Let me see if I can remember to hit everything here-- bad memory, and being on a phone, I'm likely to forget something. I didn't...

You make a fair enough point, I can admit that. We have explained to the kids about loving more than one person, but we haven't fully...

Ok, so not a positive update, but an update nonetheless: Yesterday was her day to spend with the other guy. (I'm gonna just refer to him...

Our V has now existed for a decade. I probably don't really count as a mono person, since I'm totally able to have a crush and lately I...

Ok, so I will try to say this with grace. And I won't dig into your comments about cheating vs not cheating. Ok, I lied. I will say...

Thank you for that information, and as I write this I am actively talking to him about it as well, and the info being provided from all...

It's 10 PM and she has work the next day. Presumably she's coming home to sleep, right? Why is that great timing for a talk? You and she...

this :)

The timing was good as that I had a point of reference like: after you go see him tomorrow, it would make me feel more comfortable if...

Radar is an excellent structure for folks to follow as touchpoints. I highly recommend this as well.

Definitely nothing inappropriate about it! Make sure you both sit down somewhere you can be focused and not get disturbed while talking...

As of right now, since I'm not seeing anyone else, I don't have to worry too much about finding the right balance of telling/not...