Recent content by Lotsoflove

Some more female perspective. As far as I know, we are complicated. ;) We don't want you to be pushy, and we do not want to make all the moves. I understand that for you to find the middle road, it is quite a challenge, especially if not knowing each other for years... So 1: Trust your gut...

Hi Hangoutter, I do not have any wise suggestion at the moment, but i do want to say i'm impressed by you. By your bravery to try it out, eventhough it feels strange. That you are open to learn from other peoples mistakes, and that you are curious to your new situation and to other peoples...

Hi, It wasn't even that long to read ;) and very clearly formulated. My point of view: 1. You see clearly what is going on. And as you write it, in both cases it wasn't the fact that you would be unattractive, but the fact they became jealous at your husband. If you date someone, and there...

Would love to vent some feelings, that keep coming up.... First: i'm still in complete "overwhelmed" mode. I just still can't believe that someone who i've loved deeply for so long (2,5 years is long for me, being 29), can be so blunt to just deny everything we had... Second: i can't imagine...

It's over... Thanks both of you for replying and being honest. @Galagirl, i was only waiting for a reply from him on a similar message that i have sended to him before. @ThatGirlinGray, thanks for preparing me for the ugly truth. No it wasn't what i wanted to hear, but in every other way it...

Hi you all sweet strangers reading this.... I'm polyamorous for 3-4 years now, and it hasn't always been simple, but it was always enfolding quite fast. My priority has always been not to hurt anyone. And to be honest with everyone. Which truly worked. But now it doesn't anymore. It is...