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    My life so far and how I got here

    Emily stayed over last night for the first time at our house. We had a good chat about everything before we settled down to watch a movie after putting the kids to bed, the eldest stayed up a little longer on his xbox. After the movie had finished Emily was feeling tired and asked if Tom wants...
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    My life so far and how I got here

    Emily has already told her mum today, who demanded a phone call with me. I have never felt so weird in my whole life trying to explain various things - using some things I read on this forum. I am so not looking forward to approaching my parents and even Toms side about this, So Emily's dad...
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    How to react when your husband knocks up another woman?

    Don't get me wrong, our children come first no matter what - always, always. Hence why it was my idea to them that it may be the best option if she will move in with us. All three of us could help with babysitting/caring for the baby and Tom can spend more time at home with his kids and with his...
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    How to react when your husband knocks up another woman?

    Personally thinking then, that is 100% fine with me. No more trying to be bi-sexual with my husbands girlfriend even if she is very attractive and she is bi. I'm not sure to be honest though. I just don't get how I'm straight and yet I like the idea of being in the same bed as them and then he...
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    How to react when your husband knocks up another woman?

    No I didn't know that, I assumed poly is - both 100% sexual and love freedom between a love triangle relationship - in an ideal relationship. But judging by your message then I guess its... just how my marriage is at the moment; husband is in love with two women and both women are completely...
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    New to Polyamory

    Thanks for the kind words, kdt!
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    My life so far and how I got here

    Trying to cut a long story shorter... they were then seeing each other usually most Fridays or Saturdays nights 1-2 nights a week, usually he'd stay the night at her apartment. I've never seen them "in action" but just knowing she has had him inside her has been such such a huge turn on for me...
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    My life so far and how I got here

    Then our two babies were born, boys now 7 and 4. He also has two sons from his previous relationship who are now 21 and 18. He was cheating on her and she found out, this was way before I met him. Maybe two years ago I started working with Emily. We became friends talking about anything and...
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    My life so far and how I got here

    Then after a while he somehow got my number. It was obvious he was chasing me, I expected he was only after one thing and then he'd ignore me. But he was really going to town on me! he was being a friend, he was my taxi when he wasn't working, then my mum said he seems very keen to be with me...
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    My life so far and how I got here

    So how to start this. How me and hubby got together perhaps... I first met my husband when I was 18 at a college friends house party (in the UK we start college at 16/17). At the time I had a boyfriend who was my first I was with him since I was 15. Tom (hubby) was sleeping with all the girls...
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    How to react when your husband knocks up another woman?

    I'm straight but I do find her attractive and we get on really well together like best friends, she's offered to sleep with me a while ago just me and her, and then later she asked about a threesome with hubby. So perhaps now when the three of us are in bed together it may build my confidence to...
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    How to react when your husband knocks up another woman?

    I know. Exactly how I thought too. I think she was on BC at first when she told me when he asked me if he can go bareback with her. Then like you say, the "pillow talk" sets in, she probably talked him round to it as they were making love, and then soon after she "accidentally" gets pregnant by...
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    How to react when your husband knocks up another woman?

    I've actually sensed it recently that they will probably want another child together. I can't see them ever falling out for quite a while yet, you should see how she is around him and how she looks at him, its love. And the super strange thing is, I'm not jealous, I can tell he loves me just as...
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    How to react when your husband knocks up another woman?

    A while back I remember her saying how she'd love to have two or three children one of each boy and girl. Other than that we haven't mentioned it. I actually asked him to get a vasectomy after our last son was born so then I could stop taking my BC but he doesn't want to do it, I think he's...
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