Recent content by lovelynina

Galagirl- True, someone should not coach or train any other how to deal with their own issues other than a therapist, right?

Yes, you have it all correctly. Thank you for your advice, this is definitely helpful. I'm going to tell her when I see her in person. Hopefully, things will go smoothly between us.

Hello, I am back.. Some of you guys might remember my first post in last November. Here's an update. My first poly experience with a girl who has a fiancee, which I will call Hol, was overwhelming and taxing for me. Hol's been passive aggressive for a while. Not only that, but she cheated on...

I want egiltarian poly. Monogamoy is complicated for me. My last ex and I got into a huge fight because I brought up seeing other people. Being poly, it makes me feel more inclusive of who I am, which makes me happy. A's aware of couple privillege and hierarchy and has been maintaining the...

No, we want to be part of each other's lives including her fiancee. A and I aren't against sleeping altogether or chilling and watching a movie in the same room, but A's fiancee doesn't want that at all. Yes, I can see why. That's why I suggested A if it's best for us not to be together for...

I don't think that is exactly the situation. I want to be on the speaking terms with her fiancee and make it clear that I am not trying to take A away because it's awful how they've been fighting. She couldn't trust A completely. Thus, A's been working on getting things back to normal at her...

Hey! My name's Nina. I'm pretty new to this poly community. In fact, I joined today. Because I am in desperate need of your help, advice, or whatever you think it could benefit me. Before I start, this is going to be a bit of a long message. Few months ago, my friend and I decided to go to a...