Recent content by lovemaggy

redpepper, I sent you a PM. I may have sent it twice, or it may not have sent at all... I have no idea! Talk to you soon, hopefully

I am definitely not rushing anything. What seemed to have prompted him to even suggest it was how I interacted with one of my friends. And he has known since 4 and half years ago when we started seeing one another that I am bi. I have always been open about that. But even though he is ok with...

Ooh... that drawing sounds fabulous! I'm a total visual learner, for sure. I'm sorry I misunderstood you. ;) I am obviously very new at this. However, I have had friends who have been polyamorous for 6 years. And I am friends with one of the odd ones who does not ever wish to be someone's...

Like with crayons? Or are you being rude? Sorry, I really can't tell. I didn't want to bring this up but I am autistic (functioning). Sometimes i just don't get what someone is trying to express to me. So far, only a couple of poly people have been nice to me, so it wouldn't be all that shocking.

Now I see why you thought I wanted my potential secondary partner not to have any partners other than me. I think I would just prefer, and my husband would be more comfortable, if the other, more primary, partner of hers was not a man. I wouldn't rule it out entirely. But it is natural to have...

The future woman in this secondary relationship with me would, by no means, be limited to only being with me. That definitely would be unfair. Just so long as she is honest and uses precautions, etc. The same goes for me and my husband, of course.

I am not interested in finding another woman that wants a relationship with me AND my husband. Just with me. My husband has no interest in having any relationship other than with me. What would that be called? I also have no interest in being in a secondary relationship with another man and...

Umm... I guess I am slow because I still don't understand the term. :confused: What are "arm partners"? What is the reasoning behind creating so many complicated terms? I think it is easier to just say that my man and I are the main relationship and the future woman I may be with would be my...

I agree that whoever my second partner is, whenever I finally meet them, should also know my fiance. I do not know what a 'vee' is. I've heard the term hinge before, though. I'm still not entirely sure I want to have another relationship. They are a lot of work and I'm not that great at it. I...

What do I do next? My fiance recently told me that he himself wanted to stay monogamous, but that he wants all of my needs to be met, and gave me permission to be polyamorous with other women. I never requested this, but I am open to it! I just have no idea where to start.

hi :) my fiance and i are new to polyamory. we are in houston, texas look forward to participating and meeting people on this forum :D