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Hey, nycindie, that's a great point - it most definitely wouldn't be a good precedent to give in to him when he was the one to break the rules. Thanks for the food for thought. I have never had to deal with a similar situation - and of course I can only base my advice on my own personal...

Oh, I guess I just didn't take into account that people are different. :) While I know what you mean, and not voicing your concerns can be a very very bad decision in the long run (I am actually with you on that), in this particular situation I imagined I would have cooled down, and had time to...

I think you did reasonably well :) Ideally, you'd be so okay with it that you wouldn't even think about it. The next best might have been saying: "ok, have more time", and then seething in privacy... and when he'd come home you'd tell him how it had made you feel and ask him to manage it better...

Hey, I was in exactly the same situation! One day I just realised that I couldn't go on pretending I was not missing anything. I also have a fantastic husband, and I was so afraid he would not understand... I was also apprehensive about how I would feel about his possible love interest, or if I...

Hi, I'm 25 and I live with my husband, who is about ten years older (we have been together for 9 years). I am bisexual and currently in love with two girls, but neither seems interested in a romantic relationship. They are both bisexual and like the idea of polyamory, but both of them are too...

Hi, Prudence. How do you get to the place where you'll be able to let go of your fears? Well, I think you're already there. Your whole post is about it. You know it's the right thing to do, for both of you, you are just afraid, and you recognise that your fear is just an illusion. My only...