Recent content by LovingLove

Thank you everyone for sharing your experiences. My situation seems to differ from yours as described I think mainly because I have no desire to be a parent or have children. Ever. This may change one day, yes, but that is how it stands right now. In relating to these children it would be as...

Hey thanks LR! I think that my brain might be on a good track with this based on what you’ve said. I for sure have no intention on being their parent. There is a small age gap between my lover and myself so while I am older, I don’t feel as though I have any sort of authority over them or their...

"greets him with a smile and a beer"? -refuses to see a woman councelor? -other women are novel? -doesn't want to hang with you if you don't act happy? Maybe I'm getting this wrong, but I would take a good look at how your husband values you in particular and all women in general. If he...

Hi there. I haven’t been on here for a while. Emotions exploded, relationships ended etc etc. Over the last year I’ve stuck to myself and done some serious healing and self work. I’ve recently entered into a relationship with an absolutely amazing individual and I really would like to “do it...

No, you are not supposed to or expected to sit and wait. You can carry on with your own life, DO take control of your life and don't give them power over it. This does not mean you need to say now or never to them though. Keep your heart open to them, give them support as they need it and...

Thank you for all your replies. I agree with the idea of having everything open, and sharing everything, and I know everyone needs to be kept in the loop with anything pertinent to the relationships. However, I think that there is a lot of comfort in venting to someone else. It can often make...

Hi there. I just registered for this forum and have been poking around reading it for about a week now. I am finding a lot of great information and relating to much of what is said. I have especially found myself nodding along to the lessons we’ve learned thread. I do plan to write up my...