Recent content by Lucia

I red more posts.... I wrote what couse of my jealous..... Main jealous is fear of loosing my hubby. He says he loves me, but he doesnt know if he wants to be with me. ( which incuding, he doesnt know if he wants to divorce.) That's make me really really scared.... I only guess, because he...

I am so sorry, i dont mean i upset you.... your stitation is so similer to mine. we started poly things as a desarster...... I am still trying to understand my hubbys feeling and thought. and he may feels same way as you feel,,,, thank you to reply my mistake understanding. again really sorry,,,,,

Current to today - partner is left feeling hurt and betrayed (I left my partner in the dark under the guise that all was OK, and respectful... which the actions were, intentions were not if that makes sense. the action IS the biggest problem. How does your SO know, if you put her in the dark...

NO its not harsh at all. you are right about it. I dont know how much he gets grumpy with his GF, by the way. He is hurting because me and his GF get jelouse each other, he simple wants to live with both of us, but thats not going to happen any more. I dont know how i can support his...

I did explode my emotional really badly, I couldnt take it to be no respect attitude from him. Then I told him we really need to talk, but seems to be not happen. I just simply dont know how we can talk about it. I will wait for while.... Do you think set a day is good things?

My hubby doesnt want to talk or tell about his emotion. I can see his annoying and angry, but when I asked him, he said its ok, im ok, doesnt matter. I asked him, tell me what, why you get grumpy or annoyed. What sort of thing we should do or shouldnt do. so I can try to not make him grumpy or...

I was over limit emotional stage yesterday. Made my hubby cry.... I shouldnt be like that. Do you know the good way to handdle it? I think i dont handdle emotional very well.... I am not being physically injured, thank you very much for worrys. and I am very sure if i am being physically...

He doesnt know what he wants, why he acts like that way towards me. I dont know his behaviour will change, either way, agree or disagree to a polyamous relationship. His mum, and our common friend told me he wont change,,, but you know, you want to beleive the porson you love deeply. if he wont...

Poly is really for very strong and confident minded people who ask no questions about each other and tell no lies.Unfortunately it often shows the chinks in your armour instead ie the relationship is not and never has been right. So move on while you can ! he isnt strong, he admited he is very...

to NeonKaos Iam living in the same house with my hubby. his gf was live here too, but now she has to move out, becouse i told his mum about it. that make him grumpy too. basically me and his mum kick her out, thats he thinks..... He said He cant say to her to stay out house, thats make him...

to MichelleZed He is just saying leave him alone, doesnt want to talk to me, i guess. when he is in mood to talk about it, most the time he is very drunk. we talk, but things that i dont agree with, he just, start bit shouty, or reject me.

to MichelleZed I know I dont deserve to be abused. I just wondering, if poly poeple can be like him.... I meant, I dont think he did know he is poly,,,, He is also struggling? well,,, I wasnt really sure thats mentally abuse... When he said to me move out, If i dont he will, I went to his...

to Pamelag088 I really dont know what she is thinking about it now. Before, My hubby said she is struggling that idea of poly-relationship. but she wants to have long trem relationship with him. and they are in relationship. she comes in our home when i was not there. text, phone call, chat to...

to MichelleZed I know I dont deserve to be abused. I just wondering, if poly poeple can be like him.... I meant, I dont think he did know he is poly,,,, He is also struggling? well,,, I wasnt really sure thats mentally abuse... When he said to me move out, If i dont he will, I went to his...