Recent content by M7J8Y

No, that's not what I'm saying at all. What I'm saying is that being a friend to her would be easier with closure. It would help me understand her boundaries better and evaluate whether or not I need to set up boundaries of my own. I appreciate your suggestion, although I know I have the tools...

Natja, to answer your question, I have had wonderful experiences talking to friends in the poly community before and getting excellent communication tools. Unfortunately none of those really apply to going from more-than-friends back to friends and I was hoping someone had some suggestions...

I do care for her and I certainly respect her boundaries. Thus far I've been avoiding bringing up the subject because I don't want to talk her into something she is uncomfortable with, or have her think that I am trying to do so. But I think it's fair for me to be able to express how I feel too...

Thanks everyone. Especially Bookbug. I think I already knew the answer but needed to hear... er... read it from someone else.