Recent content by Mackmisty

making it work You can have both families spend lots of time together. My husband holds hands with our GF in front of all the kids. At first they cocked an eyebrow, but got used to it over time. Her kids are 9 and 14. Now, hugs, holding hands, evening walks mean nothing to the kids, it's now a...

Tri-ing and hopeful Sounds like your GF can't make up her mind between you 2 and her husband. If the husband is completely in the dark, but has suspicions enough to behave with intimidation, then all could blow up quite negatively. Might be best to stay away until she breaks from the husband...

good advice Galagirl gives good advice. Take on one issue at a time. Get the divorce done then slowly integrate the two families. My husband and I did that with our wife. Our teenage children know all about us, but her younger children do not. We moved her next door to us so we all spend lots...