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1650 Thanks to everyone for their thoughtful responses, ideas, and input. It has given a lot of food for thought. To answer a few questions, hubby's gf isn't being pushy per say, but has said if the future doesn't involve us all living together, she can't handle it. When my husband and I...

I appreciate the constructive criticism. Across the board, I am looking for whatever input I can get. The equality piece absolutely makes sense. I want her to feel as equal as possible. I am trying to process if there are ways to make true equality occur, and if there is, if my mental health...

Sparklepie - The hardest part of poly is everyone’s mental health affects everyone. If I can't handle it; gracefully stepping out of the picture is probably the most respectful thing I can do for those involved. WhatHappened - I hardly want his girlfriend to be put on the back burner; I am...

My husband and I have been married for about 4 years, and accidentally fell into poly last year. It was a good accident at first, but he and I didn't have a healthy enough relationship to support it long term. I ended up leaving him in April, to be with my boyfriend exclusively, and my husband...