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After he and I talked, and taking in the sage advice that was given here, we have agreed that yea all parties prior should have some kind of screening but after that he and I will be screening ourselves because if we don't have anything, then neither do they. At that point choosing to use...

Thank you for that information, and as I write this I am actively talking to him about it as well, and the info being provided from all of you, and his insight is making me not just more knowledgeable, but also more comfortable with things; so thank you so much 😊

Sorry, but not all STI's can be cured with an antibiotic, and can be easily prevented with the use of a condom/dental dam, so why would I be okay with the risk due to the easy prevention?

He did say she and her husband do want to meet with us both at some point. I just found it shocking that she wants to rush sexual activities without that happening first, since that is her wish to do, and without even giving him and me time to discuss the topic at all. We did test before we...

My boyfriend/partner, who is experienced in being in a polyam dynamic from previous relationships, and I, who have never been in one, but am open to it, have been together for a year, monogamously. In the past 2 months he did start talking to another woman. He has been open to me about...