Right. Well perhaps I didn't properly explain my position or my question in an effort to be succinct. I was attempting to initiate more of a philosophical discussion than asking advice about my specific situation. I was (trying to) give a background scenario to base it off of; not asking to be...
My ex-husband and I are both poly. His wife is not and wants him to be mono. I don't know much more than that because I don't feel like it's my business.
My question is a moral one. I get nowhere asking mono friends because they do not understand the poly mindset.
I'm just curious as to what...