Recent content by mimi1002

I see what you are saying. I guess I just want everyone to be happy. I want her to lighten up a bit so that every interaction isn't a huge therapy session. Life doesn't have to be so deep all the time. It definitely would make me want to be around her more which would make SO happy.

Due to some personal circumstances, I have moved in with my SO. This has caused a disruption with his GF. Before, we had been trying to not have a primary-secondary Vee but now it is becoming apparent that I am taking on a primary role over the last couple of weeks. SO and I have found that...

She requested I tell her everything. From where we go to dinner to how we have sex. She says it makes her feel better knowing everything. So I complied. But then she seems to get huffy. I have no intention of rubbing anything in her face. At this point I think we have a lot of...

I am dealing with an emotion that I can't put a finger on. I'm in a FMF Vee. My SO's GF would like it to be a triad but I am not there yet. I don't know if I will be there. We have talked a lot about this and are working on having a more integrated life. Here is my issue. A lot of the time...

After much discussion, I am exhausted. She understands that their can be no expectation of a triad at this point and on the surface agrees that SO and I are in a committed relationship. She is very disappointed that I don't want a relationship with her and feels rejected. SO and I have been...

Well she claims she is poly although they have been mono for five years. I think that part of the issue stems from the fact I'm Bi and she has fantasied about having a relationship with another woman. She is very infatuated with me. I just don't feel that way about her. Perhaps she doesn't...

I am in a LDR with a guy several hundred miles away. We are really in love. However; his partner looks at me as a plaything that is fun to be around but that is eventually going to go home. She cannot understand why we need our privacy when we are together. She was hoping we would be a...