Recent content by missteri

Thank you for this. Intellectually I probably know this, emotionally it's much harder to admit.

And... I just found out that the one ex he's been talking to for months, largely about what happened in their relationship but "as friends" as he was telling me... He just told her that I existed. She had no idea he had any partners let alone was married. His reasoning is that it had never been...

I knew he had been talking to them as friends. They were both monogamous relationships in the past; he has since offered "I'm poly, let's see where this goes" to both of them... that he sprung on me, after months of insisting he wanted no intimate relationships with either of them. Thank you...

is it just wobbles? Hi, new here but not altogether new to poly. Need some advice on navigating a mono/poly relationship. Backstory: PC and I dated as poly, we both had other partners, but we lived separately. Both of our other relationships ended about the time I got really sick. I lost my...