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Thanks - that sounds really awesome. I will check it out for sure. I must get my hands on a copy of that book. We had a long talk this morning and all of my needs were okay with him and it was a really great conversation. I so appreciate all of you and your advice/support. Turns out he was...

Thank you so much, everyone. I really appreciate your response, GalaGirl - you're right - my issue is with him, not her and their agreement. I don't think I've done a very good job of asking for anything or outlining my needs. I am new to poly and I think I need to get better at speaking up...

She doesn't want to know who he is in relationship with - period. So when we're talking, she doesn't want to know he's talking to another woman. She knows he has another relationship, but she wants to remain completely in the dark about it. I'm sure she knows because I finally asked him...

One of my partners is married and is an a DADT agreement with his wife. It is super hard and I'm not sure how to deal with it. She told him that he is free to pursue other relationships but she doesn't want to know about them or have them affect their relationship. This has become painful to...