Recent content by mmmdonuts

Yeah agreed but at the time it's how i felt and all i could think of, can i change it at all? Something more like.. The Wife wants to be Poly, what now? I feel like i need to circle back to the start.. lots of whats discussed here is just history and what if's so far..but a wealth of helpful...

Ok i'll keep this in mind, so what we are saying here it's the consent given to cupcake that she can be Poly and to stay with her is my choice, its what matters the most. My ideals of hard and soft limits discussed with her that i'm comfortable with are completely up to cupcake to follow? if...

Few things i wanted to answer Yeah i tend to agree, i honestly don't think i have blinkers on for my wife i truly believe that she will always want me as primary and that she has told him in the cheating phase of all this when hes questioned that to get stuffed. Yes this is indeed the case...

Pfffwooaaar that's a lot to take in.. I'll digest it and post back soon. This is all happening very quick. Much appreciated tho

I hope this who post can help others as they go down the Rabbit hole!! I have never experienced so many different emotions with others working out what we all want in such a short time ( A few days). I had zero knowledge on this subject just a few days ago and with all your help i have been...

OMG how the mighty have fallen... - Geez some people must get the Popcorn out and read a lot of drama on here lol - So After a 3m hiatus of not talking.. Last night i reconnected with Peaches via a Private message, then all 4 of us got talking on FB messenger. Turns out Greg and Peaches after...

Ok..So i had my chat with Cupcake and it went really well. Such a tricky subject undoubtedly to talk about.. started with something like, "Hey i think its time to admit your into poly but me a mono and i strangely am curious, love you enough to respect that and want to give this a go! ended up...

Thanks again for the advice, it's given me something to think about. I really appreciate it.

What should i do if peaches does not agree to a poly relationship but wants us all the be friends but Cupcake and Greg can't seem to keep their hands off each other and if so should they bothwalk away from each other if they can't accept we are just all friends with no benefits.. Perhaps I...

Thanks everyone for your honesty and thoughts everyone i really appreciate it! :) i just feel the need to unload to see if my head space is right atm or my idea of Poly / mono is waaaay out of whack This is Brilliant lol, well move forward with this. I wrote this really early in the morning...

I am new to this lifestyle, I have not come across other poly people in my circles and I want to be sure this is something I'm 100% happy to persue so here I am for advice. So a very very long story short.. The wife and I are really great friends with another married couple (both have young...