Recent content by MnMs

I'm not sure why these keep feeling less helpful and more like an inquisition. We are still in an early phase of this. We have not opened the relationship yet. I started bringing up the idea when she started exhibiting a pattern of wanting women. I told her awhile ago (two-ish years) I would be...

I understand. The burden is not mine to bear. I have just gotten to the point that I have started internalizing it as our problem instead of her problem. Something to unpack there. I might just go hands off on this, kinda like you're suggesting. I will keep giving her gentle pushes to pursue it...

I will go ahead and address this. No, it's not fair, and for anyone entering the relationship I want them to know what it is they are getting into. I don't expect it to be easy. Not my wife, by the by, but might as well be. lol I don't have ptsd. I don't think I ever have. I made my peace with...

She is actually more attracted to women then men. I'm not like forcing her into it or anything. I'm not sure she would ever admit it to me, but we have been together for 10 years. She also expressed desires to bring me into the loop, so I want to be comfortable with it.

Thank you. Yes, I am healing, and so is she. I don't know if you have any familiarity with BPD, but it comes with a lot of emotions that are hard for me to navigate alone. I think bringing in someone to help with the weight of it will help with the healing process. It's a complicated mess but...

I did some research on this. I appreciate you educating me on the other post I made. I think it would be a primary MFF V-shaped relationship, until they are both emotionally established and can "catch up" to the same emotional levels. I want it to be a fair and equal relationship, where my...

I am a male. We are trying to open up to having another female involved. My SA causes me to be extremely adverse to males, and even the thought of trans females. I don't want to be touched by them, or anything.

Hello, I was just wondering what would be a good way to prepare a potential partner for all the trauma me and my partner have been through? My partner has BPD and all the things that comes with it. I have trauma from SA from an early age. I only recently started opening up about what happened to...

Hi, my name is Mike. I am starting to explore poly relationships, or something close to it. My partner is really into women, but I don't want to come off like a unicorn hunter. I have a strong aversion to males and trans females since I have past SA from childhood. I am dipping my toes in this...